i mean, i told her i'd sell it. and if i turned around on it now, what kind of man would i be? culturally, there's a honor to manhood and masculinity that women give away all the time. // but when i, you know, i ran into amber, and i, um, it just came to me that sooner or later, you would run into someone and they might tell you, and i didn't want you to just, you know, hear it from someone. i wanted to... tell you. thank you. that is so nice of you. that is so you.