http://www.newyorker.com/culture/cultural-comment/heather-havrileskys-existential-advice

“I used to admire people who could hang with anything. Now the women I admire the most are the women who never pretend to be anything different,” Havrilesky writes to a woman who is “trying to figure out how to be less nice.” She spends most of her columns giving her readers unwavering permission to feel their feelings.